My must have playlist

I, crazy Pawar, take you, the playlist, to be my lawfully non wedded partner, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.

Ok this is not a joke. I utterly and completely love these songs and they are my all time partners in life. These are just like how real partners are. You would not feel like talking to them everyday but at the same time you want them with you all the time. The moment someone praises them you are like wow to them and if they go little far like claiming them then ummm excuse me!

1) Jesus don't want me for a Sunbeam- Nirvana

The scene - Bangalore drizzling night, pg room, one big bed, dark room, playlist on with the song, Kurt cobain poster on wall and a girl lying on bed and staring at starts from the wide window, sky completely dark,  dull moon and sky with stars. Oops did I almost forgot- Kurt Cobain's mesmerizing voice.

Jesus, don't want me for a sunbeam
Sunbeams are never made like me 

Don't expect me to cry,
For all the reasons you had to die
Don't ever ask your love of me

Don't expect me to cry
Don't expect me to lie
Don't expect me to die for me

2) Hey You - Pink Floyd

Well well, I specifically liked this song of Pink Floyd better than all other songs mainly due to the lyrics. And how can I forget the shrieking voice and bold rhythm.

Hey you out there on your own 
Sitting naked by the phone 
Would you touch me? 
Hey you with you ear against the wall 
Waiting for someone to call out 
Would you touch me? 
Hey you, would you help me to carry the stone? 
Open your heart, I'm coming home. 

But it was only fantasy. 
The wall was too high, 
As you can see. 
No matter how he tried, 
He could not break free. 
And the worms ate into his brain.

3) Rolling in the deep- Adele

Adele Adele Adele, I just love you. No matter how upset I am I can listen to her and feel good about myself and mylife. She is the bomb.

Baby, I have no story to be told
But I've heard one on you
And I'm gonna make your head burn
Think of me in the depths of your despair
Make a home down there
As mine sure won't be shared

The scars of your love remind me of us
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless
I can't help feeling
We could have had it all
Rolling in the deep
You had my heart inside of your hand
And you played it, to the beat
We could have had it all
Rolling in the deep
You had my heart inside of your hand
But you played it, with a beating

4) Where did you sleep last night - Nirvana

I remember a time when Mr Shukla was humming this song imperfectly but cutely in office and I joined the humming thinking, oh he praises my lover (kurt) but Mr Shukla had an audacity to tell me that "Hah, only memorized the first line....dodo did you listen to the songs everrrrr in your life" and I was like "dah.. do you even know whom you are talking to, The Biggest Kurt Cobain Fan In Amazon, the one who has all the information ever printed about him on line, who also keeps his suicide note with her and is in love with him even after his death. "Well ofcourse all the conversation was in my head but hey guess what I still remember that you pissed me of that day. LOL.. No offense though shuklaJi. I know you too love him but don't claim him. HE IS MINE. OK.

My girl, my girl, don't lie to me
Tell me where did you sleep last night

In the pines, in the pines
Where the sun don't ever shine
I would shiver the whole night through

My girl, my girl, where will you go
I'm going where the cold wind blows

In the pines, in the pines
Where the sun don't ever shine
I would shiver the whole night through

Her husband, was a hard working man
Just about a mile from here
His head was found in a driving wheel
But his body never was found

5. Death and all his friends - Coldplay

Ofcourse my Lover is and will always be Nirvana but Coldplay and Pink Floyd have to be an extra marital affair. some how cant choose who is above who and I am not writing in a sexual way but actually in a sequential way. hahahaha. DORK.

All winter we got carried away
Over on the rooftops, let's get married
All summer we just hurried
So come over, just be patient and don't worry
So come over, just be patient and don't worry

So come over, just be patient and don't worry
And don't worry

Try
Try

Try
Try

No, I don't want to battle from beginning to end
I don't want to cycle of recycled revenge
I don't want to follow death and all of his friends

6. Don't cry- Guns and Roses

I am not an ardent fan of guns and roses but that does not mean I dont have hots for slash.But whatever the reason is I utterly love this and sweet child o mine.

Give me a whisper
And give me a sigh
Give me a kiss before you
tell me goodbye
Don't you take it so hard now
And please don't take it so bad
I'll still be thinkin' of you
And the times we had...baby

And don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight

And please remember that I never lied
And please remember
how I felt inside now honey
You gotta make it your own way
But you'll be alright now sugar
You'll feel better tomorrow
Come the morning light now baby

7. Nothing else matters- Metallica

Do I need to mention why on earth someone would like this song. you gotta be kidding me love.

So close no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
And nothing else matters

Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say
And nothing else matters

Trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters

Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
But I know

8. Truly Madly deeply - Savage Garden

A perfect song for a romantic person like me, well sometimes ....

I'll be your dream
I'll be your wish I'll be your fantasy
I'll be your hope I'll be your love
Be everything that you need
I'll love you more with every breath
Truly, madly, deeply do
I will be strong I will be faithful
'cause I'm counting on
A new beginning
A reason for living
A deeper meaning, yeah

9.Hallelujah- Jeff Buckley

Thank you Bhojwani for introducing me to The OC and hence the song. What can I say, it will stay with me forever and ever and ever. Love this song.

Well I heard there was a secret chord

that David played and it pleased the Lord

But you don't really care for music, do you?

Well it goes like this:

The fourth, the fifth,

The minor fall and the major lift

The baffled king composing Hallelujah

Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...

Your faith was strong but you needed proof

You saw her bathing on the roof

Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew you

She tied you to her kitchen chair

She broke your throne and she cut your hair

And from your lips she drew the Hallelujah

10. Thousand Years 

After all a girl. Even tomboyish girls can be dreamy at times. heart heart

Heart beats fast

Colors and promises

How to be brave

How can I love when I'm afraid

To fall

But watching you stand alone

All of my doubt

Suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer

I have died every day

waiting for you

Darlin' don't be afraid

I have loved you for a

Thousand years

I'll love you for a

Thousand more

Happy Wala New Year!

Yet another new year on its way.

“Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to
 get it right.” 
― Oprah Winfrey

There is something special about the new year celebrations. Isn't it? Even if you are just a stay at home person on 31st night, you still can not avoid the festivities around you and if you happen to work in any of the MNC like I do then you are bound to hear party plans of people way before time. The parties and outings start right before Christmas and stays till the midnight of 31st December. There is something about this night and the moment when everyone shouts 10...9...8...  ...3....2..1.. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!

The happiness and excitement of entering into a new year somehow brings closure to the year just passed by. We tend to declare to ourselves to let bygones be bygones. Its a new slate altogether. A new year where the mistakes of last year is already forgotten. Yes we did take valuable lessons from them and now we are ready to commit some new and adventurous mistakes in coming year. But who cares about all these serious fundas at the moment of celebration. All we wanna do is groove to the dance numbers with friends, have romantic dinners with lovers or watch salman khan show on tele with family with order out food. No matter how the settings are, mostly we all are happy and exhilarated these times.

The facts mentioned above are actual but there is one more fact and that is about all those millions of people for whom the new year's night is yet another scary and painful night. I wonder how these people feel when they hear party goers shout happy new year at 1 AM on roads. Do they feel happy or blessed for being alive for another day? May be one of their children died of cold or hunger or epidemic but still other 3 are alive so surely they should and must rejoice.

I am talking about all those people who live on roads and if you happen to live in northern part of India then it is close to zero degree on 31st night and for all these people who are with their families, its just another agonizing night where each passing by second is making their blood freeze and they inching towards death. Each year we all hear about these people dying of heart failure due to extreme cold conditions and I am sure each one of us feels bad for them and I also know for fact that many people distribute blankets and food to many people and most of those people would sell their blankets for a bottle of rum and then we whine about our generosity being wasted on non deserving people.

But you know what, true philanthropy does not have to show in extreme ways. As per me and Oprah (I love to throw names :)) a person is either philanthropic or not. He can never develop this as an act of his. My dear friends, lets think of some new ways to help these children who die due to extreme weather conditions, scarcity of food and also those who die by scarcity of education. Ya that's pretty much called death of a child when he/she did not get to use his/ her potential in this life.

We all will be spending at least 5000 on New Years Celebration so lets just drink one less drink or eat simple pizza instead of cheese burst and buy some presents for these little ones. Give anything you feel like and you will see that they will be happy even if you give them somethings small like bread jam to eat or some warm clothes or some chocolates or some toys. They are kids too and surely deserve some play in life.

I would like to share a small incident which took place last week. I was coming back from Food World after purchasing the household things and on red light this sweet little girl came running asking for a rupee. Her family lives there on that red light and they look like nomads who beg for living. Her job is simple, go to each vehicle which stops at signal and ask 3-4 times for money and screen other rickshaws to see a evident giver and run to that vehicle then. She is used to few expressions like being ignored like she is not present and no one can even hear her or being shoed away when she tries to touch the person. But instead I asked her whats your name and to that she behaved just like how any other child would behave. She giggled and said aarti. She did not beg anymore from me and stood there as her act was over and she didn't know about any impromptu act. I gave her a chocolate which I had with me and just then my rickshaw started moving. I turned to see her reaction and she was showing that chocolate to her brother and pointing towards my rickshaw and when I waved at her, she and her brother both waved back joyously. It was so damn easy to bring smile to their faces. On that specific day I had been grumpy whole time due to some failure in my life but look at these kids, living on streets, eating minimal food, wearing slight warm clothes and still you give them one smile and they start smiling back at you.

Someone rightly said that smiles are infectious. So why shouldn't we do this. Don't they deserve a nice dinner on new years eve and a warm sleep. Its not much to do for someone and will surely not change their lives but haven't we heard that "something is better than nothing".

There are many stories and superstitions with the new years eve for example, my friends granny would always ask us to write the new year date as soon as the year starts and thus in hostel when every body was giving new year hug, this friend of mine was writing 01 Jan 2006. LOL. In the recent book which I read, Adultery, its written that as a part of new year celebration, the whole family stands on the sofa and puts feet together at exact moment as a mark of entering the new year. Some even have to lock lips during this moment so well there are all sorts of rituals. So why don't we make one more of such ritual for us which will stay with us till the day we die and will teach our coming generations. Choose your ritual, please lets do something for someone. :)

I will walk out of my house on 31st with food in my hand and I will be very happy if I will see you too there somewhere.

“You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.” 

― John Bunyan

I wish you and your family a very Happy New Year in advance.

Time and Distance!

 Speed = Distance/ Time

We learned this formula in school and have been using it ever since then. Listen I am no mathematics geek to start writing a blog on the formulas. Its not like, hey there is nothing else to do so lets start a blog on algebra. It so happened that like always I was thinking about some random stuff and realized that the concept of distance and time is the thrust of our human relations.

Lets see how. Answer this to yourself that what do we all want at all times from life on emotional front and what is that one thing which is causing major issues in society?  As per me that has to be RELATIONS...

Well, we are all social animals and are desperate for company of other such animals. We want our families, friends, colleagues, neighbors, dogs, cats and even enemies with us. We love the feeling of having someone to care for and having someone who cares for us. Often times we end up giving ourselves completely in relationships with others. There is absolutely nothing we do not try in order to make this work with those special people in our lives. The variation and frequency of relations do differ and we eventually know how much salt is needed in which curry.

But then this same bonding and kinship has caused us worries and complications and pain in the past. If we look closely then we can see that relations are actually a melting pot where we meet different kinds of people and form varied relations in line with the equation of distance and time. Some of these people walk with us for a very long time whereas others leave us on a difficult turn only after a short while. Some are there to mentor us until we find a goal whereas some others are teaching something from a distance. Wouldn't it be easy if we knew from beginning who is there to stay and who is there to walk away? Well, no. That is the whole point of this equation. We need to and ought to learn a lot of diverse and difficult things in life and the method is simple.

According to me, Ms Know-it-all relations are of three types as in the equation is of three types in life.

1) Less Distance and Longer Time (Td):  For as long as we could remember these people were associated with us. They are closer to us and always remain like that. They are here to help us and support us and shout at us when we screw up in life. These are those guarded angels who were assigned a job to take care of us just like how we are taking care of someone else and are guarded angel for them. They are going to walk with us for a very long time.

2) Less Distance and Less Time (dt): Often times we get close to somebody at the first meet. Its like we were meant to meet them and more so often this bond comes to life when we are in utter need of something to hold on to. (I have my personal experience to prove it and I am sure you will have that too). Didn't it happen with you that you met someone and you just knew that you could open up that closed file and get some answers. These walk into our life with a small but important task to help us in some crisis or to provide that much needed support and encouragement. The moment their job is done they leave your sight. Think about it. Even you would have given that encouragement to some one at some point and no matter how well you connected with that person you did leave their sight after a while.

3) Long Distance and Less or More Time (DtT): There are people in life who are there everywhere and from time to time they teach you something about yourself. Imagine that day when you saw your colleague picking up a fight with someone else and you understood that you would not and should not do this yourself. There are countless examples of DtT in our lives. They are everywhere and are helping us grow with each passing second. These are the most important people and mostly the neglected ones.


 Apply the formula in each relation and see what can it teach you.

I feel the equation is pretty simple. May be coz I used to love mathematics as a child but if you look closely then you will be able to see the importance of each one of the person around you in your life. Every one is meant to walk a certain path with us with a simple calculation of the distance which is the level of closeness and the time for which they will be with us and this will definitely leave us more enriched and fulfilled in a longer run. As no one is really good or bad in life. They all are just doing their job.

Imagine if that boyfriend would not have ditched us then how on earth we would have understood we have that much strength in us to move on in life. If that teacher would not have flunked us in exam then how we would have learned so much. If we would have had a perfect family then we would not be grounded now. These are important aspects of life and are not that important anyways. We should just let it all go. I feel we must realize now that the only relationship more important than the one we are living with are the relationship we have with ourselves and hence we must not leave any opportunity in life which get us more closer to out potentials. Have you realized that all those difficult tie-ups brought us face to face with our strengths and weaknesses. We realized that we do hold such great and diverse characteristics also. Yes we were hurt and yes we were dejected but that is all ok now. Isn't it? We don't grumble about that now, do we. Instead we might give that a laugh or two.

So, see possibilities of something enriching in a breakup next time. Remember that the journey is supposed to end here with that person and hence the results of equation should be worked upon now.

Things will get much simpler if we start taking everyone around us as a teacher in disguise. After all, all that should matter is that we all have one person who is the closest as a soul and stays with us forever and that person is no one else but "US".

So start loving yourself more. Spend quality time with yourself and fall in love with your company.Be the craziest person you would ever meet. Have fun with your life as the only person who will sit with you on that sunny beach with a book will be you. Don't be too hard on yourself as remember that whenever someone leaves your side then you have a formula handy to figure out what results you are meant to get with that equation.

from floridabeach rehab website from google image search.

You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.

Buddha

A Friendship undone!

A Friendship undone!

“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.” 
― Helen Keller

Don't we just love watching episodes of FRIENDS again and again. This genre has helped the entertainment industry earn millions of bucks in the last decades. From "FRIENDS" to "How I Met Your Mother" to  "Big Bang Theory" to even "2 Broke Girls", people have enjoyed it all. 

These sitcoms have beautifully captured that one relationship which helps us grow into the person we are today. It is that same relation which helps us recover from fall outs of life and also it is the very same one on which we are not dependent, well mostly.

Think about it. If a love relationship is broken then both of you lovers are devastated. For days you will not know how to take care of yourself as you were so consumed into that romantic feeling with someone else and now as that person no more holds ground in your life you feel ruined. But this definitely does not happen with friendship. Two friends grow up together in the same society and are best buddies but as they become adults they move away and fail to stay in touch or that group of friends who was your life seems at a distance after all of you have found partners in life. You do keep in touch for special occasions though like birthdays and anniversaries but even if this contact looses then it definitely does not qualify for those heartbreaking tears which you will have in other "so called important relations" in your life.

Why do we do that? Why don't we give the same amount of respect and importance to friendship today? Why are we so darn busy being busy?

On day do day life we hear people talking about how important their girlfriend or boyfriends (lover) are and how they are ditching that date with a friend to go meet a lover. It is easy and comforting to take this decision as the only job of a friend is to "UNDERSTAND".

People aren't you missing out on life by keeping your friends away? Think about it, there were days when you walked miles with them sharing those secrets you never dared to share with anyone. You nursed them when they had viral and they did the same to you when you were dumped. They were the only ones who told you at all times how talented you are even when you parents could not see that talent through a microscope. They were the ones who would pick up your phone at 3 AM and only after customary 2 shouts they would listen to your heartbreaking stories and will even give you sincere advice in deep sleep.

If you have these kind of friends in your life then you ought to keep that relationship safe. Please start giving them more importance than you already give. Imagine how life would have been without them. You would never have understood how beautiful or talented or amazing person you are if they would never have told you at first place. Imagine how those nights would have been if they were not at the other end of receiver after your life had a major misshaping.

Are there friends in your life who were there at all times and you got pissed with them over something tiny (mostly an expectation)? If yes then pick up that darn phone and call them right away. I am gonna do that now! 

This is one relation where you don't need much sugary words. All you need is a want to make it up to them and only a smiling voice. This is the only relationship which comes with no frills attached. Lets call our nice and boon companions now and feel happy about life.

NOW DON'T BE GRUMPY AND MAKE THAT CALL.

oops I don't remember anything!

A posh hotel room, girl half naked covered in a white quilt with a question mark expression on her face and a guy with breakfast tray in his hands and look that he was smitten by her last night. And the famous question was asked my girl- KAL RAAT KYA HUA?

Girl was too drunk last night to remember what happened between the two of them. She remembers getting drunk but has no memory whatsoever of making out passionately with the young lad. well, this was the famous story of Simran and Raj in DDLJ and nothing actually happened and Raj was only making fun of her only to fall in love with her later BUT there are enormous number of scenes in Bollywood movies where a guy gets drunk and wakes up next morning with a story unknown to him.

My question is : Do people really don't remember a thing after they get drunk? Ok, I can assume that they don't remember dancing on a trashy number in front of public, or speaking louder than their usual decent tones or even falling down on streets but can they really forget something of romantic sorts?

If that is so then I am sure these rapists don't remember a thing as they all are pretty much drunk at all times. And all these men who dance at weddings after they are drunk and pass lewd comments at girls think next morning that they were sober at the wedding.

I guess Bollywood should immediately stop showcasing these scenes which allows a normal decent guy to wear a cloak of invisibility when he is drunk and gives access to an opportunity where he can kiss and forget.

Why worry while alive

" Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle"

-plato

The usual Sunday night and while browsing the usual channels, I chanced upon my all time crush "Mel Gibson" and it was one of his cutest movies "What Women Want". I remember watching this movie as a child and was intrigued with the idea of reading minds of other people (wicked).

In case some one has not seen the movie then brief is here -

Mel Gibson, a typical MCP and at a high post in advertising, hits on a weird road in life when he accidentally start hearing all the thoughts of women in and around him, ranging from gardener, house maid, boss to his own daughter only to find out that he is being disliked by the majority of women. The man then decides to use this for benefit only to understand at end the pain and worries of women and finally he succumb to the goodness and becomes a "good guy".

The movie was funny and all I took from the film was the ability to read minds. However, I just felt that there was another take-away from the film which I completely missed and that was the fact that we all think too much. I am not talking about only we as in "women" here. We all as a species started using the power of brain to our benefit and discovered the word "multitasking" only to get trapped in the thick walls of unnecessary thoughts.

I wonder if we were always like this or was there an apocalypse of calm living. Mostly as per whatever I have read I feel that humans were always in the process of  90% thinking + 5% analyzing + 5% contemplating. We were happy as a species and more and vast knowledge slowly made us scared species. We are always scared and worried and the fears are almost the same -

"what if dad will get to know about my exam results", "what if she/ he will like someone else in school", "I can not live without him/her", "I need good grades", "what if I will loose him/ her","what if I wont get a good job", "what if I won't get hike", "What if my child is in danger", "what if my insurance will not cover my family" in short WHAT THE HELL.

I am sure you would have noticed at one point or other the face of random people walking on streets. Haven't you? Then please do it. It will showcase the perfect today man to you. They all are day dreaming, thinking, worrying and are in short, stressed. But why? Are we really that stressed of a generation?

Aren't we listening each day about some or other celebrity suffering from either Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety attacks or Post traumatic stress disorder.  I am no subject matter expert here but as a human I do feel sad looking at my favorite actor's sufferings. These things are serious and yes traumatic for the person suffering from this and their families too. How can we forget the shocking news of celebrities who have all facilities in the world but still go through sufferings like Selena Gomez or Catherine Zeta Jones. So this basically means money can really not solve STRESS.

Instead of gagging the topic lets go straight to the findings. Do you know according to research a human brain can think limited number of thoughts at a time? To be precise, its normally 4 thoughts at a time and what are we doing then with ourselves?

Ya I know we all need to think and plan about lot of things but are we really planning? Well as per me , NO. We are either brooding about that fight with our partner or sulking about not responding to the boss or ruminating about an ongoing family issue and these all things are sapping us from all the good energy which we can use for some happy and fulfilling activity in that day. Yes ofcourse there are major problems in life but the answer is clear in the quote by shantideva "If you can solve you problem, then what is the need of worrying? If you can not solve it, then what is the use of worrying?"

I learned in my Art of Living course, the magic of being in the moment.  Its a well known fact but we give less admiration to this. We human beings are either living in the past or hopping to the future and are hardly thinking about present. Even if we are thinking about present, its actually more of a future plan like if I complete this file today then I will be able to get my work completed before weekend and then I can easily go out for a movie. This is not being in the present and now you will ask why? well, present moment is "THIS". Right here at this very moment when you are reading the words is your present moment. Are you absorbed completely in the reading or you are already making second plans in head? This moment will never come back and it passes you by in a fraction of seconds, in a snap of your fingers. HOLD THIS THOUGHT HERE AND STAY WITH IT FOR A WHILE. SEE HOW MANY SUCH MOMENTS YOU MISSED UNATTENDED.

In my personal experience if you focus and when your brain shuts the multitasking mode and is in present then in reality the world looks brighter and happier. I am not boasting this. Please go ahead and see it for yourself. Really stop the thinking process and be aware of each moment passing you by. yes, there is it, the calm and beautiful you.

Give it a thought.

If its tough then do it like a meditation for 1 minutes after every 1 hour.

If you still can not get to the understanding of "present moment" then I will give a very simple trick. Listen to Pharrell Williams songs "Happy" and see how you instantly feel at the moment you listen to the lyrics and the music. That is exactly what you need to do without music. Is it difficult? well you deserve to see the brighter life and hence its worth a try.

Happy Living.


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The references were from -
http://www.informationweek.com/humans-can-only-think-about-four-things-at-once-study-says/d/d-id/1063868?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2329492/Catherine-Zeta-Jones-gets-normality-leaving-rehab-following-month-long-treatment-bipolar-disorder.html

You mights also like reading -
http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20669377_4,00.html

http://loveandlifetoolbox.com/being-in-the-moment-and-why-it-matters/

Dark Pleasure

Relax. Its not some spooky blog!

“I love the silent hour of night,

For blissful dreams may then arise,

Revealing to my charmed sight

What may not bless my waking eyes.” 

― Anne Brontë, Best Poems of the Brontë Sisters

My previous blog post made me wonder why I love watching night scenes in movies... mind it... not scary, bloody and terrifying scenes but rather nice and normal beautiful depiction set in the nightly sky and then I recollected how we all used to love sitting under start gazed sky till midnight on our hostel terrace and how we all continued this practice in Jaipur flat and then Bangalore flat. I think all of our secret and soulful discussions were at that time with a warm cup of coffee. I decided to google about it and found some amazing results ranging from people suffering from various disorders to having dark triad. Well I beg to differ with the results as I specifically don't remember planning and plotting evil things in night but always those times were filled with love, laughter, music and joy and most often imaginations and dreams.

But ofcourse I do agree that some psychopaths use night as tool to hide their triad from others and people often get carried away in taking wrong decisions and thus I made my own assumption over this very fact of being a "night lover". Ok well so to start with you can be a day person like me and be a night lover at the same time. See you don't have to perform love every day right? Keep the night love alive for special occasions.

What is it about night and darkness? Yes it can be depressing as you logically can't see clearly like you can in day light and one depressing thought can travel a long length due to this very fact. But at the same time, isn't night comforting also. It can be one of those times when a silent and sleeping desire gets its wings which is many times not plausible in day time.

Fact is that one strong thought or feeling can stay for a longer time in darkness and if this is a happier thought then whats better than that? There is a very simple reason behind it and that is your guards are down at that time and there is shush around you and so what you would most likely do? Contemplate your feelings or roll with it? I guess the second choice will win the battle.

Arent people more creative and dreamy in darkness and I guess apart from the obvious scientific reason of frontal cortex advising you to shushing the day and other part of brain then taking control to burn the fuel of creativity instead, I feel the common reason would be that "no one is watching" or "no one will disturb the process".

Ya people are creative at such times and often times the weird dreams which will shy away in daylight will comes to life in those moments for all of us. Isn't it right? Well it stays until the logical brain intervene and starts contemplating and tells us how stupid and audacious we were at those moments.

I think media including novels and movies has caught this amazing love of people and for years have depicted beautiful scenes in night. Yes ofcourse there are a major chunk of scenes depicting the usual "act of love" so we would rather no go there. Some of the picturization I just loved are -

Barfi Movie song- is dil ka kya karu 

The song sequence is just amazing. Hush melody, starry night, clean washed hill roads, quiet world and out of no where Ranbeer on horse. Words are of absolute no use at that time and works wonder with the character of being a dumb and deaf person.

go exactly to 3 min

Ek Main Aur Ek Tu - kal chalna shuru tu

Imran understands the word freedom and leaves his house. Yes the absurd thing is he starts driving in Delhi and within night he reached Mumbai. But hey leave that alone. We are here to praise the beauty of scene.

A Walk To Remember

I know I know this is one falls in romantics category but the scenes were pleasing. I guess I have developed some kind of thing for clean atmosphere and here we go again. A refreshing weather and Landan Carter fulfilling Jamies wishes.

Hum Tum Song - Sanso Ko Sanso

What a mesmerizing song with arresting video. Its typical Bollywood dream sequence and still yet again I fall in love with the scenes.

Titanic-legendary scene

Yeah this one is not pitch dark but rather dawn. I guess it falls in the same category somehow. See I know I am wrong but whatever I love this scene so here it is -

Sanjay Leela Bhalsali

I just named the guy to be easy as his films are basically shot in dark with some scenes in daylight. I guess he and I share the same kind of night view love.


Wake Up Sid

How can I leave this one out. My favorite. Be it the first time Aisha and Sid go out for a walk or their time together or aisha's birthday celebration. Hmmm mesmerizing.

Parineeta- Raat Hamari To

Well well a song is completely dedicated to night (raat). I know its melancholy but nice view and song is just amazing.

Notting Hill

The best ever scene I have seen. William saying "Now what in the world in this garden could make the whole ordeal worthwhile? "

Please do add more such scenes in comments as at this moment I can not figure out more but I am sure there are more such scenes.

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video from youtube
Quote from Goodreads